Why Dean Winchester’s Bisexuality Matters

Hunting for queer representation. It's the family business.


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Warning: this article contains spoilers for Supernatural seasons 1 through 11.

Dear SPNFamily,

We’ve all done the homework. We’ve screencapped every eye flicker, every smile, every jaw clench. We’ve catalogued, archived, and tagged the fleeting moments; memorized facial tics, voice cracks, and lip quivers. We’re not obsessed (okay, debatable). We’re just on the prowl for bisexual Dean Winchester. And, turns out, he’s pretty easy to track down.

Bisexual Dean is everywhere. But most fan references to his queerness focus on his relationship with Castiel, the Angel of God who appears in season four. Fair enough – the sexual chemistry between them is hotter than a yellow-eyed demon in Hell. But I’m more interested in the quieter moments from the earlier seasons – the ones that prove Dean’s bisexuality has existed all along.

In season one’s “Hell House,” Dean gets visibly flustered when Sam emerges from the shower with nothing but a towel and glistening pectorals. The look on Dean’s face is not so much an “oh look, my little brother has muscles now” than a “oh shit, what fresh hell is this hot specimen.” Yes, we all know they’re brothers. And so does Dean – he quickly averts his eyes in a tizzy.

(I can’t be the only one who read this scene as sexual – the implication being that Dean hurries into the bathroom to “clean the pipes.”)

In season two’s “Bloodlust,” Dean becomes emotionally intimate with fellow hunter Gordon Walker. In a private moment, when he finally broaches the topic of his father’s death, Dean says, “Can’t talk about this to Sammy. You know, I gotta keep my game face on. But, uh, truth is I’m not handling it very well.”

Up until then, the only person we’ve seen Dean be vulnerable with (outside his immediate family) is Cassie Robinson, an important ex-girlfriend. This immediately places Gordon, someone he’s just met, on the same level as a woman with whom he’d had an intimate relationship. Bisexual, biromantic, Dean.

Again, in season two’s “Croatoan,” when Dean tries to leave town during the viral outbreak, he is stopped by an older man who asks him to get out of the car. After lots of eye-flirting, Dean says, “Well, you are a handsome devil, but I don’t swing that way, sorry.”


Sure, Dean. We believe you. Especially when you say it in that tough-guy voice. “I don’t swing that way” is a phrase Sam would never feel compelled to say. In fact, Dean’s constant masculine posturing throughout the series is what first caused me to read his character as bisexual. Whenever the boys are mistaken as lovers, Sam shrugs it off, but Dean gets defensive. Sam remarks on this in season two’s “Playthings:”

Dean: “Of course, the most troubling question is why do these people assume we’re gay?”
Sam: “Well, you are kind of butch. They probably think you’re overcompensating.”

Sam has a point. By all intents and purposes, Dean is the ultimate “man’s man.” He’s a rugged, demon-fighting, sexually voracious, smack-talking dude who oscillates between rocking out to Air Supply and severing a vampire’s head with an industrial chainsaw. But he’s bisexual too. And it matters.

To my knowledge, there are no bisexual characters as stereotypically masculine as Dean is in Supernatural. In a world where gay men on television are Jack McFarlands and Kurt Hummels (although they’re wonderful too), representation of a “butch” bisexual man is important. But the unfortunate fact remains that the Supernatural producers still shove Dean’s queerness to the margins. He never talks about his bisexuality, physically acts upon it (other than the aforementioned eye-fucking), nor engages in any sort of “questioning” behaviour. (I’m still waiting for the scene where Sam walks in on Dean watching gay porn and eating pie: “I like the cinematography!”)


Like the Winchesters, we’re hunters. But we’re not hunting the supernatural. We’re hunting for queer representation. And sometimes it seems that, no matter how clearly we see it, from a strictly “canonical” perspective, the ghost of Dean’s bisexuality is still wandering around hospital hallways and spelling out I-A-M-B-I on Ouija boards. But seriously, fuck “canon” on this one. Because there are a million examples of Dean’s queerness (NSFW). Like I said, we did the homework.

Dean Winchester is bisexual. Always has been, always will be. And a hoard of hungry hellhounds couldn’t scare me into thinking otherwise. Because Dean’s bisexuality matters to me. For many reasons. For every time I caught sight of my crush in the high school locker room. For every time I wanted to make the first move but didn’t for fear of being clocked in the face. For every time I didn’t see a queer male TV character who looked and acted like me.

I am Dean Winchester and he is me. In all our glorious, masculine, non-traditional bisexuality. And when I watch him, I matter.

Love from,
A Butchy Bisexual who does swing that way.


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13 Comments on Why Dean Winchester’s Bisexuality Matters

  1. Yup, he’s Bi!

  2. Honestly, I never felt Dean as bi nor gay. I didn’t even know there are some people who consider him as bi and I watch this show since 2006. Please do not get me wrong I am also a LGBTQ supporter but I think we can not call characters gay/bi as long as show does not confirm it. (For example, now we call Wonder Woman bisexual cause producers “confirmed” it) So, If Dean says he doesn’t swing that way (means he’s no bi) it is okay for me and I also be okay if he was bi because I love the character.
    Also, I do not agree with the idea (which most people say) “They don’t confirm hes bisexuality because they are afraid of losing fans” because nowadays no shows losing much fans for having LGBTQ characters (which is a good thing) and most fans will just happy If he was bi and rest of us wouldn’t mind, like me. And friendly reminder there are dozens of male gay/bi characters in most TV Shows who are as masculine (or butch in Sam’s words) as Dean. Even in Supernatural; Don’t you guys remember that gay couple from season 11? They were pretty masculine.

    Sorry for long comment. I liked how you write your opinin with a proper language and not acting like those pesky shippers who doesn not agree with their request. Keep your good work ! )))

  3. catherine9676 // April 25, 2017 at 8:30 am // Reply

    Really enjoyed this article. In my opinion, I agree that Dean may be bisexual, but I never considered those examples from before Castiel was introduced. Interesting..
    Considering most of my knowledge about this comes from the ever debated topic of Destiel, it is interesting to see his behaviour from the early seasons in a different light.
    I hope you keep writing more, really like your stuff 😊❤️

    • I like that about this article too. A lot of meta about Dean’s sexuality focuses on Destiel and, here, there’s a clear case to be made for the more incidental, less obvious queer moments. I enjoy any sort of meta and fan theories about characterization, particularly when it comes to the Winchesters or my beloved Draco Malfoy. 😉

      Thank you so much for your lovely words. 😘

  4. Robert Orwell // April 2, 2017 at 4:16 am // Reply

    I too believe he is bisexual, but, considering how homophobic US society truly is, can you imagine the damage it would be done if Dean were to come out? Although the show has attracted lots of women to its audience, its fan-base is mainly composed by men, lots of them being the rugged tough Texan WASP kind of guy, which is equal to say they are quite homophobic – some of them are also closeted gays or bisexuals, seemingly like Dean, and strongly struggle against their nature, so you can imagine the results of a come-out in Spuernatural, can’t you? It’s sad, really sad, but it’s true.

    • Interesting comment! Yes, I imagine there would be a lot backlash if Dean Winchester were to “come out” as anything but straight. Especially because we aren’t used to seeing traditionally masculine characters (like Dean) who also identify as LGBT in popular media. That being said, there would be a whole hell of a lot of celebration as well — from fans (Destiel shippers, perhaps), from the LGBT community, and from people who embrace and are accepting of marginalized identities.

      I myself do not have a strong opinion either way about Dean Winchester’s sexuality. (I just want Dean to be happy. Perhaps he’s pie-sexual.) However, unfortunately for fans of bisexual Dean, I would be very surprised if the creators of Supernatural ever publicly acknowledged or promoted either Winchester as openly queer. Western media is still very conservative and studios do not like to take risks. The good news is… things are (slowly) starting to change for the better in terms of representation (e.g. The Force Awakens, Rogue One). But, sadly, I don’t think we’ll get there by the time Jared and Jensen decide to leave the ’67 Impala behind.

      Then again, if history tells us anything, Supernatural might remain on television forever.

  5. Enjoyed your writings on the Dean Supernatural lore. Being an Associate of the WJGroup, and extremely grateful for being not being a ‘straight’ male, I am writing a story on a Dean-Benny relaltionship. Its a great story (a little sexually graphic though), and should complete it by March 10, 2017. My bosses in Switzerland and Argentina are not very hot about it, but they admit they can not stop me from completing the story. Thank you for your writings on Dean bisexuality (and why it is important). Gabriel Salazar, WaltersJudsonGroup

  6. The more I look at this website, the more that I have to roll my eyes in despair. I get why it’s here.
    I just hate that conjecture and opinion is being perpetuated as fact. It’s dangerous and it’s unprofessional.

  7. I guess you see what you want.

    • FAN/FIC Magazine // January 23, 2017 at 6:04 pm // Reply

      Exactly? I’m LGBTQ, which informs my personal reading of Dean Winchester as, well, not-entirely-heterosexual. Everyone brings their own identities and life experiences into the texts we consume, whether we intend to or not. I prescribe to the idea that “canon” is more fluid than fixed. You may disagree.

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